How strong and cohesive is that community?" If I take away the house or withhold a share of the assets, it will harm the children. Absolutely nothing, and how come you claim to not be interested in speaking with others who do not agree with you when by reading Wabond's article above this should have been obvious and you should have avoided this in advance? but I do not exclude myself in being able to think and say what is in my mind.. So if we recognize that men on the whole make dreadful rulers, then it makes sense to see if women can do a better job. On the other hand, matriarchal societies, which are earth centered, regard the human mind and body as a unity and see God in every aspect of Creation. But to point out that men do a really terrible job of ruling our world and that women because of their maternal and nurturing instincts would do a far, far better job. Therefore, even if women were not competitive, those women who become leaders would have to be highly competitive nonetheless. There has recently been a rise in acid attacks on men by women, however as they say, "what goes around comes around," and I see this as these men getting a fair taste of their own medicine. I've also been a slightly detached and external observer of human behavior. If you are going to claim that saying that men and women are different is sexism then you are going against common sense. In other words, all the resources provided by nature are for exploitation. Yes, I know. Men's bodies produce far more testosterone than what women's bodies do and it is this hormone that makes a man's body physically stronger. The societal issues of the human race are far too complex and fundamental to be anyone's "fault". We may not like it but last I heard women are human beings as well and I don't think that they should sit back and take the abuse and not get even for the treatment that is brought upon them. Men of violence always, blame the victim, or try to blame someone else. Previous Post All about Microsoft Access Database you need to know. And please note, the people killing the defenceless population, are all men. That they have had no effect on the men in their lives, and played no part in maintaining and enforcing gender roles and perpetuating them on the next generation. In other words, in male competition, there is no equality, and this has been the case in every society ruled by men. War and genocide has been commonplace in patriarchal history. How badly does it have to get, before women like you wake up to the fact that men are doing a really terrible job in ruling our world. William Bond (author) from England on May 17, 2012: Men are in a lot of trouble, Lucy, because they are ruling the world, a job they are completely unsuitable for. On the most basic level we can start comparing how many organs we have in common with how many organs we don't have in common. War is only possible, because men can be trained to kill. But men are simply attracted to women with good physical appearance and feminine attributes. Wow. No learning, no growing, no progress. (It is because women give birth to children). Women leaders demonstrate an inclusive, team-building leadership style of problem solving and decision making. Pretty much all the evidence I've seen points to the fact that women are just as competitive and violent as men--they just use proxies to enact that competition and violence in some spheres of life. "people do a really terrible job in ruling our world". But today, through democracy, it is now possible for a political party to gain power without the use of violence, so it would be possible for women to set up a Matriarchal political party or even take over existing political parties, Now, many feminists say that one sex shouldn't rule our world and men and women should share power equally. The only way we can have this proof is for women to start ruling countries. I have no problem with a matriarchy or women ruling the world. If I exempt your husband from alimony and child support, it will harm the children. Are you saying that people are intentionally voting for uncaring politicians? But as i have also pointed out the it the type of people in power that is far more important than the system they use. More relevant . As for the reason why there is no matriarchies in recorded history the reasons is warfare. In the long term, successful research will pay the company higher profits. (10) A male-only priesthood gives men the sense that they have something unique to contribute, and encourages them to serve others. It would be far better if men stop looking for scapegoats for the world's problems and blame each other and look at themselves and men in general. For instance in the French revolution that promised equality for all people, only succeeded in creating a reign of terror as men like Robespierre and later Napoleon Bonaparte fought for power. But if men are incapable of taking responsiblities for their own actions, then that is another reason why they shouldn't be ruling our world. William Bond (author) from England on August 14, 2011: I can see by your comments that you are a Feminist who believes that men and woman are the same. It is dustproof and waterproof and can be recycled. We have had many great thinkers trying to solve these problems, through either religion or politics, but what is noticeable with all these solutions, is that they all have failed. There are still a variety of risks involved in using an MRI scan despite its overall beneficial use. Who is more diverse anyway? Moreover, most men who seek to invent or innovate are not "given" the tools, money, education and encouragement to do this. As for saying I don't like men. It seems that patriarchy can fight wars, commit genicide, condemn billions of people into poverty, mess up the finacial system of world, and get away with it, because people will swallow all the bullshit patrirchy gives them, without question. This may be all right for animals to behave like this but can be a disaster when human males have the same instincts. Disadvantages of nuclear family system Lack of man power. That motivation and competitiveness is a function of men *having to prove themselves self-sufficient, competent, and more useful and worthy than the next guy* in order to pursue a mate. cross dressing, femininity, wearing dresses, etc) as being invalid and unimportant, simply due to the fact that they (the male feminists) have never had to go through them, and therefore have no idea what it's like to be born into the body of a "feminine" man, which leads them to believe that all men are somehow "overprivileged". The very fact that women are far less ruthless, aggressive and competitive than men, will make them far better rulers of our world. And I said before, women haven't had to fight because they had men to do the fighting for them. Anyone who aspires for such a position has to be extremely competitive in order to succeed and this is every bit as true for women as it is for men. There are no good guys or bad guys in our world there are only violent men who are as bad as each other. History has shown that one of the tell-tale signs that a civilization is on its last leg, is on its way to decadence is the collapse of family life. A minority of women in politics is not evidence that they have a harder time. matrilineal society, also called matriliny, group adhering to a kinship system in which ancestral descent is traced through maternal instead of paternal lines (the latter being termed patrilineage or patriliny). You just declare your judgement with total certainty and that's it. I never get the same problems with men. I think you have deeply misunderstood where Wabond is coming from, I know for a fact and he has even admitted it himself that he is not trying to put women on a pedestal, nor see women as perfect goddless-like and infallible beings, hell no one here has ever said that, however, men have done a good job at symbolically idealizing themselves as such and still do even today, just take a look at the Vatican where the pope's word is considered God's word on earth! advantages and disadvantages but may improve a group of animals. Muslems hate Jewish and Christian men, Christian and Jewish men hate Muslems. This gives rise to the question why. Because you are living in a toddler's black and white universe where women are always good, men always evil, and where "should" trumps "is". Body paragraph 2 should state the disadvantages of the topic. There's nothing basic about the problems in warfare and poverty. It's been speculated that the elites imposed the matriarchal system on the serf class to weaken their social organization and more easily subjugate them. Women did not just sit on their ass and do absolutely nothing while leaving all the inventions and responsibilities to men, I have never in all my early ages of life believed that and I absolutely never will. Until then, have a nice life.". "Things can only change when we have matriarchal political parties where women are free to be themselves and not have men tell them how to behave.". While men continue to do this, we will always have wars, genocide, poverty and a large gap between rich and poor. Once men realised that women could be dominated by violence, it opened the Pandora's box that allowed men to dominate the whole planet. So, for better computation and faster speed, the solution was to make different systems work together in harmony to solve a particular problem. I have no idea why I seem to be the only person saying this. The Lineage Matriarchal societies are also often matrilineal in nature. A number of characteristics that distinguish women leaders from men when it comes to qualities of leadership: Women leaders are more assertive and persuasive, have a stronger need to get things done and are more willing to take risks than male leaders.Women leaders were also found to be more empathetic and flexible, as well as stronger in interpersonal skills than their male counterparts.enabling them to read situations accurately and take information in from all sides.These women leaders are able to bring others around to their point of view.because they genuinely understand and care about where others are coming from.so that the people they are leading feel more understood, supported and valued. As mentioned, this system is the descendant of female governance. To counter arguments like this, women stated that men and women are the same, and continued to say this in 1960 -70s with the Womens Liberation Movement. Yes, violent men always make this excuse. These men have taken all the wealth of the land to themselves and shared them out only to those who will support their rule. Copyright @2022 All Right Reserved Designed and Developed by Maven Logix, Patriarchy Vs Matriarchy: Understanding the Difference, Pros and Cons of Patriarchy vs Matriarchy, Superwomen breaking the myths and handed-down opinions, The desi dad syndrome that every middle-class kid can relate to, 20 Things That Pakistani Millennials Miss From Their Childhood. We can see this behavior in sport. I cannot understand why after five thousand years of patriarchal history why people cannot see this. William Bond (author) from England on July 05, 2012: Thanks Bard, yes it is strange that men will spend trillions of dollars on advanced technology to create better weapons in which to kill people! But then you cannot know with any degree of certainty that those changes would have any benefit whatsoever. However, their history is feudal, and the ruling class engages in pair-bonding and paternal investment. As well as this, black men in particular are the most over represented men in jails. This forms the premise for the development of a special kind . In other words, it may very well be that it was female leadership, not some cultural lack of male aggression, that led to the extinction of those matriarchal societies. It is important to know more about these two concepts. This is just another sexist rant filled with misandry. As we will always be ruled by aggressive, ruthless and violent men. . http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Correlation_does_not_ For example: There have been many wars in history. But just telling me that I'm brainwashed and then repeating your initial statements is not an argument. The accomplishments of men are not the result of men being better. Yes, it is very hard to push forward new ideas and inventions but men have a better chance at doing this than women, in a patriarchal society. It is very true what you say about the differences in the sexes - how males are naturally more aggressive - im not saying all males but in general males are. They started limiting them to stay at home and nurture the young ones. The fact is that if you allow men to rule countries, as history shows, they have a tendency to want to conquer, invade or start wars, with other countries. It is nearly always men, and this is to do with the male competitive instinct. Sorry to say, if you think women are superior and have these sort of fantasies, you are a disgrace to nature and are weak both physically and mentally. And that is the reason why the world is in a mess. A project powered and managed by Maven Logix Pvt Ltd. It has to live in its pristine form. Can improve confidence levels of minorities. @2022 - All Right Reserved. If we want to change this, and we seriously want to live in a more caring and compassionate world. The Caliper study findings are summarized into four specific statements about women's leadership qualities: Women leaders are more persuasive than their male counterparts. Then once we get into a violent situation we end up with psychopaths becoming leaders, because a psychopath is far more able to deal with violence than ordinary men. Would you then still be preaching the same lines? I think it is down to people not thinking and knowing about it, I certainly had never really thought about this until i came across one of your hubs - which I am really grateful that I did as it has really opened my eyes alot! I do not like to see people killed, rape, tortured in wars. Collectivist nonsense that fails to treat human beings as individuals. Yes, men are very, very good at blaming women for their violence and not taking personal responsibility for what they do. There are many definitions available for elaborating the concept of patriarchy. It is said if all men stood up for their rights, who would stop us? By your logic, this statement would also be true; There have been great periods of peace during history. How about teaching compassion, forgiveness and respect? Therefore, the fact that matriarchal societies fell to patriarchal ones cannot be automatically attributed to matriarchal societies being unable to defend themselves against aggressors. William Bond (author) from England on June 27, 2012: So is your position that it is sexism to say, "men do a really terrible job in ruling our world". Its really interesting abd informative reading all the comments about this, what i didn't realise is about the percentages of crime - yes i knew men cause more crime than females but never realised its about 99% - that is alot and really needs to be addressed! This situation is Matriarchy. ". Do you do so for the sake of argument, that you may gain some satisfaction in asserting your bias as well as your social and political views where it naturally doesn't belong nor is wanted? However, in the year it took to clear your husband of any wrongdoing, he's become a stranger to the children. In other words, because you're a man, your writing here isn't as qualified because you have inferior communication skills. Maternal instinct is a red herring. (As in the case of Hiroshima and Nagasaki at the end of WW2). You cannot dismiss childbirth as being totally unimportant. Men are leaders; each time more than 3 of us get together, we practice posturing and determining who's in charge, who's the best leader. As for there being collective guilt and reward you are most certainly right about that; men as a collective have been given their just reward by Mother Nature which has been the result of all the problems we now must address as a result, not to mention the praise among societies for their for their inventiveness, is that not reward enough? Don't you think that's crazy? It has powered up our remote work enthusiasm and has made us able to perform at our best. In this case, there are negligible chances of growth and development for all. Do you honestly think that telling the men who rule our world that they are being sexist is going to change anything? William Bond (author) from England on May 15, 2012: Over 99% of the violence of the world is committed by men. The family will also be better off because the man will do a better job of providing for the family. 18 Transgender Attended Class in Gulgasht Colony, Could This be a Great Dance of Hunger: Transgenders in Pakistan. I'm not interested in discussing gender issues with someone who cannot see women as human beings. Some of it is indeed attributable to men's agency. Improves the effectiveness of data exchange. It make sense for our world to be rule by nuturing and maternal people and not the most competitive people like we have throughout our history. Furthermore, this system is quite liberal to research, development, and change. yes i agree but like you have said the women already in politics tend to have to go about it in a very male way to fit in, what we need is for a female only party to be set up were there are no male members to allow women to freely behave as women in the party. Then only on paper would women rule the world and only as long as men, the actual ones in power, allow it. Also, there's absolutely no reason to believe women start any less wars than men if they have most of the political power. Being aware of the advantages and disadvantages of a business partnership is a crucial step to take before venturing into a partnership. It might interest you to know that acid attacks in places like Cambodia are mostly perpetrated by women, out of jealousy? The role models given to boys in comics, books and films are violent heros who wins the day by being better at violence than the villian. I don't "insist that men and women are the same". I think I've learned about wild animals. Is that in the hands of men or women? The fallacy lies in a blindness to the similarities. There is no evidence of a truly matriarchal civilization. Tyranny is easier to form in the structure of a monarchy. The big problem with this, is that equality is an unknown concept to competitive minded men. Females do not have the same pressures in that regard, because men's criteria for a sexual partner have always been different, and over human history, women evolved to express those traits, and men to express others. I am sure a matriarchal government will be far more committed to reducing both poverty and crime than any patriarchal government. A world ruled by women, is far less likely to go to war.. Patriarchy vs matriarchy, we will discuss their pros and cons. And I see no reason to believe that a female leader with a military at her disposal would feel averse to using it. You cannot know exactly how much of us is determined through biology. Hence it is matrilineal in descent. They distinguish themselves from the group through their behavior and accomplishments. Gap between advantages and disadvantages of matriarchy and poor caring and compassionate world forms the premise for the of. Always, blame the victim, or try to blame someone else ruled. 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